Early today I had my guitar lesson. My teacher is around 45 years old. He (Greg) is single and lives with his cat who has a very ironic name that I cannot remember at the moment.
As usual, we end up getting a little off topic and talk about some personal dilemma. Today we talked about cell phones.
We somehow began talking about how everyone in this day and age have a cell phone. Greg said that he has realized that first dates now consist of texting, updating your Facebook status, and posting pictures of your food. It seems like you can no longer have an uninterrupted conversation with another person.
Greg then informed me that he does not have a cell phone, only a land line. I was surprised. I can not imagine my life without my phone. I asked why he didn't have one. He then admitted that he actually had a flip phone for about a week but got frustrated because his friends would randomly call him and just talk about nothing.
I actually laughed when he said this. I spend most of my day, texting my friends about what? -pretty much nothing. I have a twitter account which allows me to read about how hungry someone is, learn about what crazy thing the Kardashians are doing now, and see a fun picture off Michael Scott from the office. Do I need this? Heck to the no. But I chose to do it. Why?
Today, we feel the need to update our close friends, or even people that you've never actually talked to, how much homework you have, or your OFTD. And this is all normal.. Although there is a group of people who refuse to get a twitter for these reasons exactly, but for the rest of us, why?
I think that today we live in a society where everything you do revolves around your phone. It started with Facebook where you would update your status saying how upset you were or what you did that now, and now it has just morphed into twitter where you can just post "cat" and you'll probably get 25 favorites and 10 retweets.
Honestly, I don't think that we will ever be able to back out of this way of socializing and communicating, at the very least it will have to get much worse before it gets any better.